The Official Site of WEC Champion Ben Henderson
I Put Him 2 Sleep!! Smile...Wink...Hooray...
Well guys, since I am new here,let me give you a bit of history. I am 29 years old, the mother of 2 beautiful boys, ages 4 and 10. I am a whole 5'3, and weigh 140 pounds. Until the last couple of years I was not very athletic, and I do have those good things about women...so im not fat, just a little cushion back there...hehe..
For the last 6 years I have been with a man,the father of my 4 year old,who has been very abusive-physically and mentally to both my son and I. I've overcome a lot and FINALLY left him. I know you are probably thinking why I didnt do it sooner, but when in that situation,its harder than it sounds.
He's not a lot bigger than me, he is 5'8, 175 pounds,but when you are talking about a man and me,it is a big difference.
So I decided I wanted to pursue my passion of MMA with the classes and boy they paid off!!
Before I left,
He was mad at me because I needed to go to the dr.because of a sinus infection and I wanted to leave our son at home. He did his usual punch and smack but this time I didnt sit there and take it. I decided I might as well get something for my money with these MMA classes, and it was worth a shot. So I kicked the mess outta him and when he bent down it was a guillatine for him. I didnt let him go until he was on the ground, and it felt good. He left me alone,too.
Maybe I shouldnt be so happy about this, but I am estatic.You all have no idea what I have went through for years, and even though there werent many things I could do I did inflict some pain on him.
Now if I can just get Ben down here to whoop up on him...he wouldnt dare cross a man...
For the last 6 years I have been with a man,the father of my 4 year old,who has been very abusive-physically and mentally to both my son and I. I've overcome a lot and FINALLY left him. I know you are probably thinking why I didnt do it sooner, but when in that situation,its harder than it sounds.
He's not a lot bigger than me, he is 5'8, 175 pounds,but when you are talking about a man and me,it is a big difference.
So I decided I wanted to pursue my passion of MMA with the classes and boy they paid off!!
Before I left,
He was mad at me because I needed to go to the dr.because of a sinus infection and I wanted to leave our son at home. He did his usual punch and smack but this time I didnt sit there and take it. I decided I might as well get something for my money with these MMA classes, and it was worth a shot. So I kicked the mess outta him and when he bent down it was a guillatine for him. I didnt let him go until he was on the ground, and it felt good. He left me alone,too.
Maybe I shouldnt be so happy about this, but I am estatic.You all have no idea what I have went through for years, and even though there werent many things I could do I did inflict some pain on him.
Now if I can just get Ben down here to whoop up on him...he wouldnt dare cross a man...
Tags: choke, domestic, guillatine, violence
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Comment by Amanda G on June 3, 2010 at 12:25pm - I wouldn't call it kickin his butt( though whenver Ben is ready to come do it I have the complete address-LOL).But I choked the mess outta him and he left me alone! HEHE! I have not heard from him since...Only a man would care about his child.
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Comment by Thomas C. Kelly on April 24, 2010 at 4:25pm -
Hey Amanda! Good for you! Two thumbs up!
However, he is the father of your kids and you're going to have to have some kind of relationship with him (as little as it may be). He will most probably not approach you in any physical way again, but just in case, you should never ever trust him again. He may be insidiously vindictive! Most men would find it difficult to accept a woman kicking their butt.
Pray about it and try to get him some psychological assistance...
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Comment by Amanda G on February 10, 2010 at 9:17pm
- Would youlike his address? LOL!! No,I am serious! LOL! that's what he needs a good old fashioned butt whoopin from a man,which he is not. If I had done it sooner...6 long years of it...
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Comment by Oliver Paragas on February 10, 2010 at 3:55pm - Great job whoopin' his ass! Man, I hate domestic violence!!! You don't need Ben, I can whoop him myself. You can even tie one arm behind my back...OK, violence is not the answer, but self defense is! :)
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Comment by Briana Pinon on February 9, 2010 at 10:23pm -
im glad you made such a right (and brave) choice. :)
its sad how many women get used to the abusive lifestyle. I hope you the best and I know God is watching over you to protect you. Stay strong!
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Comment by Amanda G on February 8, 2010 at 10:18am
- Thank you all for your support...you guys are great. I was so happy I finally defended myself I wanted to tell everyone,and I made sure to put a pic of him on here to show everyone the WOMAN BEATER. But me and my kids are gone, never looking back,nevertosee him again. No man will ever put his hands on me again,believe that. Maybe thats why I love MMA so much so I could do something to him!LOL! Us little people have it hard sometimes! I always told him he had so much anger gostep in the ring with Ben or another fighter.Ben is 25 pounds smaller and he said he wouldnt do it for all the money in the world.Just goes to show you. Domestic violence is a real deep thing,but I try to be a good mama.
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Comment by Raul Brigantti on February 8, 2010 at 9:53am - Wow! Good for you girl! We all have the right to protect ourself and family so just as Soo said " Don't EVER let another man have that kind of power over you or your boys." Also for the good of you and your children stay away from him. You sound like a great mother and its the best thing to do. We here at smoothben are a family and will be here if you need to talk anytime. Trust in God Amanda. God Bless
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Comment by benson henderson on February 7, 2010 at 11:23pm - well said and i fully concur...
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Comment by Soo Guevara on February 7, 2010 at 9:22pm - That's right girl!! Stand up for you and your boys!! Don't EVER let another man have that kind of power over you or your boys.
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